The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition)
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Stop Hoping for a Completion of Anything in Life 2 Live With an Open Heart Even If It Hurts 3 Live As If Your Father Were Dead 4 Know Your Real Edge and Don’t Fake It 5 Always Hold To Your Deepest Realization 6 Never Change Your Mind Just to Please a Woman 7 Your Purpose Must Come Before Your Relationship 8 Lean Just Beyond Your Edge 9 Do It for Love 10 Enjoy Your Friends’ Criticism 11 If You Don’t Know Your Purpose, Discover It, Now 12 Be Willing To Change Everything in Your Life 13 Don’t Use Your Family As an Excuse 14 Don’t Get Lost in Tasks and Duties 15 Stop Hoping for Your Woman to Get Easier Part Two: Dealing with Women The Superior Man’s focus is on growth—he charts the course so others can follow, trusting the stability of his wisdom and the openness of his heart.
Where the Superior Man approach tends to focus more on the divine eternal dance between the assertive masculine and creative feminine, both in the form of relationships and even within a man’s own soul, the Red-Pilled Chad tends to look on any feminine traits within a man with utter disdain. In The Way of the Superior Man, David Deida explores the most important issues in men's lives—from career and family to women and intimacy to love and spirituality and relationships—to offer a practical guidebook for living a masculine life of integrity, authenticity, and freedom. Join this bestselling author and internationally renowned expert on sexual spirituality for straightforward advice, empowering skills, body practices, and more to help you realize a life of fulfillment, immediately and without compromise.Yet while the mainstream culture has embodied a destructive form of feminism that has debased men, it’s not like the world of men’s work and the manosphere is one united whole. There are many competing voices each articulating a increasingly jaded view on the state of our culture, gender relations and the world.
Some of these are The Enlightened Sex Manual, Blue Truth, Finding God Through Sex, and the autobiographical novel Wild Nights. Every man knows that his highest purpose in life cannot be reduced to any particular relationship,” writes Deida. “If a man prioritizes his relationship over his highest purpose, he weakens himself, disserves the universe, and cheats his woman of an authentic man who can offer her full, undivided presence.” That’s because underneath our know-it-all exterior, men actually don’t have a clue and we’re desperate for answers. We’ll do just about anything for approval from women, and deep inside our egos all want to be seen as the “superior man” — but superior to whom? Other men? Are we really playing into the same kind of unhealthy win-lose competition model that is already the cause of so many of our mental health problems?A man must cultivate a polarized relationship to his woman and his world: this is the only way for him to remain in relationship with either. If you deny your desire for the feminine, you depolarize yourself, and that leads to impotence and purposelessness. Ejaculation Should Be Converted or Consciously Chosen 45 Breathe Down the Front 46 Ejaculate Up the Spine Part Eight: Men’s and Women’s Yoga of Intimacy Even the title of his book makes this error. While I understand that “The Way of the Superior Masculine Energy” doesn’t have the same ring to it, collapsing “man” with “masculine” causes problems because people start unconsciously (and consciously) associating the two.